The Seven Courtesies

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1. On Benefactions
   My rates are lovingly considered and are not negotiable. I ask that your benefaction be placed in a discreet white envelope in plain view shortly after we meet. This small, gracious gesture allows us both to relax fully into our time together, knowing the formalities are beautifully handled.
   
   Tips beyond the requested amount are always deeply appreciated and never requested. Generosity is noticed, and it is always remembered.
    

2. On Hygiene
   Excellent personal hygiene is a must — it’s a gift you give to both of us. You are always welcome to freshen up before and after our time together; I’ll have everything you need. That said, please be mindful of the time you’ve reserved. Our clock begins when we meet, and while a shower is always available, it shouldn’t consume our time together.
    

3. On Time & Extensions
   Please be on time. If something comes up, let me know as early as possible — I will always extend the same courtesy to you. My calendar is thoughtfully managed, and our time together is one beautiful piece of a full day.
   
   If you’d like to extend our visit, simply ask during our time together. I love when the feeling is so good you don’t want it to end — and if my schedule allows, I’m usually delighted to say yes. Just don’t overstay without asking; your benefaction would naturally be adjusted to reflect our additional time together.
   
   Please don’t cancel at the last minute. Last-minute cancellations genuinely hurt me — and I know you’re far too much of a gentleman to do that intentionally.
    

4. On Scheduling & Boundaries
   My personal time is sacred to me, just as yours is to you. All encounters — whether an intimate evening, a dinner date, or a casual outing — are arranged through the same thoughtful process. I am not available for impromptu plans, off-the-clock socializing, or any form of unscheduled contact.
   
   If you’d like to share a meal with me, I would love nothing more — simply book a Signature Affair and we’ll do it properly. I stop communicating with those who disregard this, regardless of how fond of them I am. I know you understand.
    

5. On Communication
   All appointment inquiries and scheduling happen exclusively by email. I communicate by phone only to confirm your arrival on the day of our engagement with the exception of my texting packages. I will never reach out to you by phone unless you have expressly requested it — your discretion is as important to me as mine is to you.
   
   I don’t discuss what may or may not happen during our time together — you’ll find all the answers you need in my reviews. I don’t engage with explicit or inappropriate messages; I simply don’t respond to them.
   
   For those seeking something playful between visits, my texting packages (on the Benefactions page) offer a beautiful alternative to unwanted texts.
    

6. On Discretion
   Your privacy is absolute. I will never reach out to you without your permission, never share your information with anyone, and never give any indication that we know each other unless you invite it. What happens between us stays between us. That is a promise I hold sacred.
    

7. On Arrival
   You reached out to me because you were looking for something — a genuine connection, a gift to yourself, a beautiful escape from the ordinary. Come prepared to receive all of it.
   
   Leave whatever is weighing on you at the door. I promise you’ll feel the shift the moment you step inside. Be ready to be spoiled, to be present, to be surprised by how extraordinary this can feel.
   I intend to give you everything I have — and I only ask that you bring yourself, fully and openly.

 

Appointments exceeding two hours must include a meal or light fare together. It is, genuinely, one of my favorite parts.